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The Top Two Mistakes Most Guys & Girls Make When Trying to Approach & Seduce Good Looking People

The top two things that I’ve seen a lot of guys do. Most guys do this. Most guys make this mistake. The reason why I’m doing this now is because I only realised yesterday it’s actually on a sliding scale of the same emotional polarity, but your’e two different ends of the scale.

And I thought that’s really weird…

I’ve interacted with and it’s come down to actually trying to pull, trying to seduce girls, or whatever does this, and you know, I’m lucky because I’ve been able to see it both sides of the fence. I’ve been the guy who chose. I’ve made these mistakes. I’m about to tell you some stuff and I have made these mistakes believe me, but I’ve also been able to sit on the other side of the fence. I’m lucky enough to have a lot of female friends. Some of them are very good looking so I have heard the I’ve been lucky enough to be able to sit with them and watch guys try and approach them and see what guys do.

Mistake number one is putting them on a pedestal.
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The most important thing to know about online dating sites? Is it just another numbers game?

What we all know about online dating is that it’s like what my friend calls it, ‘dumpster diving for diamonds‘. You’re going to have to go through a lot of people before you find that right gem, to be totally honest.

So, if you only have a connection in chemistry with one person in a hundred, you’re going to have to go on a lot of dates. You’re going to have to filter, and what you must keep in mind is that people who are just coming out of relationships, they go online…

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People who are thinking about coming out of relationships, they go online. People who are serious about getting into a relationship go online. So there’s just a lot of filtering needed. If you kno
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Rejection Sucks – Tips for What to Do When You Get Rejected

So, you finally gathered up your courage, and… got rejected? Right, first thing you need to do is refocus your thinking. You want to retrain your brain.

When I used to sell real estate, I would make a hundred calls a day, most of those were no’s… it was a numbers game.

So I’d either call a hundred, or till I got to a yes. So there was a lot of rejection and I used to think, okay, every no was closer to yes. You got to really think that way too about rejection, I mean you’re not looking forward to it but if you get rejected really early on, especially early on, you want to thank that person for only wasting this little of my time so that I can move on to really finding my right partner.

The other thing too is that as you’re dating, or getting rejected, you’ll be finding out things that you like and don’t like about people, and perhaps if some of these people are honest with you about why they were not interested, if it’s
something that is changeable, you have the
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Why do women, and men, go back to abusive partners again and again? Meet Trauma Bonding, aka Stockholm Syndrome

When we get back with abusive men, and let me talk about trauma bonding for a moment first, trauma bonding simply means that if two people have shared a highly emotional experience together, it gives them a unique bond and perhaps even a false sense of a depth of bond and a false sense of shared history. The more intense the experiences the more deeply it could be said to burn into a person’s unconscious, so if you compare a pleasant evening out between a nice couple, where they go and they have a nice meal, and then they go to the cinema and then they come back, and they have quiet but nice sex for 15-20 minutes and go to sleep in each other’s arms. That’s all very nice and it’s very lovely.

Whereas if you compare that to going out, getting drunk and seeing your girlfriend dancing with another man. The young couple, they’re together, the guy sees the girl dancing with another man and because he’s a nutcase, he flips out starts screaming and have a big scene in the
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Do you think dating sucks? Many people do. Here is what to do when dating sucks… to make dating fun…

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Dating Sucks… Now why would they feel this way? Well, because they want to create something real. Chances are if you’re reading this article, you want to create something real when it comes to dating. You want to find someone who values you. Find someone who invests in you. Who you can invest in. Someone who you can build something enduring with, but instead here’s what you get. Casual dating, meaningless hookups, and mixed, confusing-ass signals. You do not need to be a psychic to know that an enormous number of people right now feel this…
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Here are some ideas on How to Successfully Date and find a partner

It can be difficult to strike a good balance when dating. How do you appear interested without coming off as desperate or needy? How do you get to know someone without being nosy or rude?

And how do you figure out how a person feels about you — or tell them how you feel about them — without either of you feeling uncomfortable? Dating is a tricky business, but here are some guidelines that’ll keep you successful and in the mix!

Setting Yourself up for Success

Define your expectations. Why are you dating? What are you looking for? Do you want a lifetime commitment, or do you want to live completely in the moment? Whether or not you’re seeking a commitment can make a difference in how you approach dating.
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You may want to know how many dates does it take to know if there’s real potential?

Let’s get right to it: After two or three dates, you should honestly know if the person you’ve met is someone you should keep dating. Too often, a mistake men and women make early in dating is overthinking things. By date two or three, you won’t know if this person could be your lifelong partner.

But after two or three dates, you will know if this is a person you inherently feel comfortable with. By two or three dates, you will know whether this person is someone you have a natural fit with, and that natural fit is the must-have foundation of any good, lasting relationship.

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Many times, a man or woman will go on a date and feel understandably nervous because they are meeting someone new. Everyone’s heads are filled with questions as they sit at dinner or walk down the street t
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Expat dating: Online dating guide for expats

Expat dating has its own set of challenges and perks. Luckily, anyone looking for a partner in an international setting has a plenty of options, including expat online dating.

Living abroad while single can be exhilarating – it can mean freedom to dive into a new job, country and culture. But being single in a foreign country can also feel daunting and lonely, leaving many expats longing for a partner to navigate the new surroundings with and share in adventures.

Expat singles: dating challenges and advantages
About two-thirds of those living in a foreign country are in a relationship, according to a 2017 survey – leaving a sizable potential pool of singles remaining to date as an expat.

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LADIES ONLY:- A Few Things a Woman Should Not Tolerate From a Man

1. “Unfaithfulness” If a man wants to sleep around then he shouldn’t commit to a woman or marry her. Commitment or marriage demands that he be responsible and man enough to be loyal. 2. “Sexist remarks” Some men look at the woman as inferior, they make sexist jokes and belittle the woman. Such words should..
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GENTS ONLY:- 11 Things a Man Must Have the Guts to Say

1. “I am taken”
There will always be women trying to lure a man especially when he is taken. A taken man looks presentable because there is already a woman/wife in his life making him shine. A weak man will not let an opportunity to taste new waters of new women pass. But a great man will turn down their advances, remain loyal to the woman who has stood by him all this while, and have the guts to tell those opportunistic women “I am taken. Keep off!”

2. “I am my own man”
People will put expectations on a man, “Why can’t you be like your dad?”, ‘Why not follow the footsteps of your brother?”, “Why are you not as rich as so and so”, “Why don’t you venture into this business/ career?”, “Why don’t you talk like so and so”… a great man is firm in his identity, he chooses his own path and walks it.

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